The ordinary sense of confidence is confidence about something, which is conditional or qualified. But in this case, gentleness and softness give rise to an unconditional feeling that is awake, brilliant, and warm. It is like watering the seeds in a garden. In this case the gentleness that develops is like the moisture that helps a seed to grow so that the greenery will unfold and flowers will blossom. When we have both moisture and warmth, we know that the plant will definitely grow.That confidence is the seed that we should share with the rest of the world.
Unconditional confidence is the pragmatic aspect of tenderness or gentleness. It is the action arising from the softness. Developing confidence is like watching the sun rise. First it seems very feeble, and one wonders whether it will make it. Then it shines and shines.
From Smile at Fear: Awakening the True Heart of Bravery, page 94.
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